Life is not all about ups and happiness.
There will be times that you will be tested and encounter situations that may shake your view of your own value as a person. Even the most strongest person who feels like they already view themselves as worthy may surprisingly come to a point of feeling unworthy because of rejections and being used by other people. Strong emotions specifically pain may bring us to a period of loneliness and self-doubt. Pain may temporarily cloud our view of our surroundings making it hard for us to see all the people who chooses us everyday, without any conditions and hesitations.
Always remember that you are valuable and lovable.
Other people may not treat you as valuable but that isn't the case. As they said, rejection is God's redirection. Look at it as the other way around. Maybe what God is saying is that these people are the ones who are not worthy to be in your life. He's just removing people who are not meant for you to make a bigger space for people who are actually worthy of your time and love. Every person is worthy and valuable in the eyes of God but as humans, we are given the freedom of choice. There are also situations where people chooses to go the wrong path of using other people for their own gain. May it be because of boredom or selfishness but remember, their actions and choices doesn't define your value. It's a reflection of what kind of person they chose to become when dealing with people that crosses their paths. Maybe these people were brought to your life temporarily to teach you lessons instead. Lessons that will make you stronger and choose to be a better person.
Be proud of having a kind heart.
Dark times are temporary so try your best not to dwell on them. Just view them as His way of testing you and preparing you for bigger and better things to come. Remember that God doesn't give us challenges that we can't surpass. View this also as an opportunity for growth and a wake up call. Take a look around and see all these people surrounding you, who loves you genuinely with all your strengths and imperfections. Focus on people who clearly sees your value so that you can rediscover self-worth.
Remember that the way you let other people treat you is a reflection of how you see yourself.
Don't let other people define your value. Instead, exercise your right to choose people. Choose people who are also worthy of you. You are a beautiful person inside and out and don't let other people make you change that.
